We are told by our Lord to love everyone (Matt. 22:37-39). There is no question that it is hard to do such when someone is being unkind. Christ clearly states that if we love those who love us, what reward have we? (Matt. 5:46). It would do us well to remember that people who hurt people are hurting. Most of the time we just don’t know what others are going through.

Last week, our seven year old granddaughter went through something that broke our hearts. Let me first give you some background. Lucy is in the 1^st grade and developed a friendship with a fellow student that didn’t have too many friends. This girl would often act odd and was struggling to learn things, of which Lucy would help her with. The teacher would say that Lucy would go out of her way to assist that girl in any way she could. Sometimes the girl would have to leave class when a counselor would have to come and take her out for being disruptive. There were even times this child would have to go home for getting sick all of a sudden.

Well, last week Lucy’s friend was taken to the hospital and they found out she had brain tumors, which explained the many problems she has had learning and her problems dealing with others. The child died this past week and the teacher called my daughter, Leah, to tell her how hard this was going to be on Lucy to help prepare her.

The lesson I learned from Lucy is that whether or not someone is ill, we should be willing to care for others. Part of me thinks, a seven year old doesn’t need to go through such. But what do you tell her, not to care for people? Of course not. Think of Jesus. Our Lord cared for everyone to the point of dying on the cross for those who didn’t love Him (Rom. 5:6-11). But would we have wanted to tell Jesus not to care? Of course not.

May we learn to love from our Master and from a seven year old who looked past the bad behavior that caused others to ignore her.

Chuck

Reach out or avoid? 

As students of the word, we sometimes come across passages of scripture that seem to conflict. For example, we read that we are to go into the world to teach the lost (Mark 16:15; Matt. 9:13), yet we are also warned that that evil company corrupts good habits (I Cor. 15:33). What should God’s children do – spend time with the lost or avoid them? Let’s clear up the confusion.

First, we need to understand that there is a big difference between being around the lost to help them learn about the Lord and being partners with the evil doers. The word “company” in I Corinthians 15:33 means “companionship”. This is what Paul spoke about in his second epistle to the brethren at Corinth: “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?” (II Cor. 6:14).

Christians need to be wary of being influenced by those who are not children of God. This occurs when saints (which means “a person recognized to be holy”) engage in things that are ungodly. We are not told to cut ourselves off for the lost. We are admonished not to allow evil company to corrupt good habits.

This does not mean that God wants us to overcorrect and fully separate ourselves from those who walk in darkness. The Corinthians were also told: “I wrote to you in my epistle not to keep company with sexually immoral people. Yet I certainly did not mean with the sexually immoral people of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world. But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is a fornicator, or covetous, or a drunkard, or an extortioner – not even to eat with such a person,” (I Cor. 6:9-11).

The above text helps us see how to interact with the lost. We are not to avoid those who are not Christians, but we must also be careful around sinners to avoid corrupting our own morals. That’s why we are warned to not be a participant in their evil doings. Light has nothing in common with darkness. However, a Christian may have non-sinful things in common with one who is lost, like a common occupation, hobby, etc. Often, those things we might have in common can be used as doors to try and impart the gospel.

We all know that Jesus ate with the sinners. His motive was always to reach them with the truth, though. There is something seriously wrong when Christians only want to fit in with the lost and avoid bringing up the word of God to avoid disrupting the relationship. Sadly, Christians who do this also tend to remain silent when their “company” does evil and make them feel comfortable in their sins (Rom. 1:28-32).

When these warnings are ignored by God’s children, they will soon feel more comfortable hanging around the lost than around their own brothers and sisters in Christ. You would think the opposite would be true since God’s people are part of a spiritual family that have a longing to spend eternity in heaven. But that is not the case when one does not keep their eye on the mark (Heb. 12:1-2; 28).

The title of this article is “Reach out or avoid?” The answer to that question is “yes and no”. Yes, reach out to the lost and do not avoid them. But also no, do not allow your good morals to be corrupted by evil doers and avoid those who actively try to corrupt you.

                                                                                        Chuck