There needs to be less love 

This might seem like an odd thing to say, but there would be more love in the world today if there was less love. First of all, there is no question we need more love. Love covers a multitude of sins (I Pet. 4:8). Christians are even told that if we do not have love, we are nothing (I Cor. 13:1-3). Let us also not forget that we told that we must love because God loves us and He is love (I John 4:8, 19).

Knowing the importance of love, why did I say there would be more love if there was less love? The answer is found in what we love. In other words, if we love certain things less, it will, in turn, help us love other things more. So what things should we seek to love less?

We need to love “self” less

It is interesting to note that when we love “self” less, we become selfless. This is exactly what Christians need to become. Conversely, if we love ourselves more, it becomes harder to be clothed with humility. Our Lord made it perfectly clear that the haughty and arrogant (those who want to be first) shall be last. And those who are last (the humble) shall be first (Mark 9:31-37). Recall the old saying that there is no “I” in team. In God’s family, Christians do all they can to avoid thinking of themselves more highly than they ought (Rom. 12:3). Ultimately, their love of self can cause them to love others less.

We need to love pleasure less

When Paul told Timothy that perilous times will come, he mentioned both those who will love themselves and also those who will become lovers of pleasure rather than God (II Tim. 3:1-4). Let’s

face it – if we did not love pleasure, then there would be no such thing as having fun. The problem comes when we live for fun at the expense of everything else. If daily living becomes a burden that we “endure” until we can go and have fun again, something is wrong. People who live this way will struggle to study their Bibles, participate in worship, etc. Thus our God is loved less and less. The opposite is also true – when we love pleasure less, there is more love for God.

We need to love our present faith less

This point might also seem odd.  After all, we cannot please our God without faith (Heb. 11:6). Nor would our works be any good without being coupled with faith (James 2:26). Here is the issue though - it is very easy to love our current level of faith and never increase it. Our faith will not grow if we are satisfied and comfortable where we are. Such people will become lukewarm (Rev. 3:16). Christians who love their current level of faith less will seek to increase it (II Thess. 1:3) by getting out of their comfort zone and developing their abilities.

We need to love our praises less

There is nothing wrong with being complimented for things that we do. Jesus and His apostles often spoke favorably of certain individuals when they did good things (John 12:7-8; Phil. 1:3-5). The problems arise when we begin to crave the praise of men though (John 12:42-43). If we will love this less, then we can love the praise of God more. Knowing that our Father is pleased with us should bring us more joy than anything else in this world.

We need to love our possessions less

There may be exceptions, but most people buy what they like. The Lord does not want us to hate everything we own. Still, we must be wary of loving our stuff so much that it becomes our main focus.  Loving our possessions less will help us to love the future dwelling-place of our souls more (Matt. 16:26). Let’s do our best to love less in order to love more!

                                                                                         Chuck

“Lovers of pleasure”

The apostle Paul told Timothy that perilous times were coming. “For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than loving God,” (II Tim. 3:2-4).

Such people were described as “having a form of godliness but denying its power” (verse 5).  How can a person retain a “form of godliness” if they love pleasure rather than God? This situation is where someone will serve God as long as that service does not conflict with anything else they like.

Keep in mind that these pleasures are not inherently sinful. These pleasures might just being things that are fun, exciting or thrilling – sports, playing games with friends, going to concerts, etc. The issue is that these people become more passionate about their fun than they are about God and thus only have a form of godliness.

Faithful Christians love the Lord and do not just want to appear godly – they want a genuine relationship with Him. From an eternal perspective, sacrificing our relationship with God in exchange for a little more time spent playing sports, going fishing, visiting friends, etc. makes no sense!  We should not see God as the ultimate fishing buddy – we should our relationship with Him as something far greater than any earthly pleasure. If we put Him first, there will be no conflict between loving God and earthly activities.   

In closing, consider this illustration. A married man is leaving work, but his friends try coax him to spend time with them at the bar under the pretense of “working late”. A man with a strong love for his wife will not hesitate to choose her every time because there is no comparison between the choices. And so it is with God’s people. His faithful children will seek true godliness and reject having just a form of godliness every time.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Chuck