Before we answer the question given in the title, let’s first qualify some things. Reason being, everyone has been given free-will. Thus, we can choose to do whatever we want. The question at hand is more of, do I have to be a member of the church of Christ to be pleasing to the Father? Let’s see what the Bible has to say.

What pleases the Lord?

It is vital that we understand that pleasing the Lord is not based upon what pleases us. So often you find religious people doing things for the God that He did not approve of. Consider what Cain did. In Hebrews 11:4, we are told that Abel offered a more excellent sacrifice than Cain. Did you notice it said that Cain offered a sacrifice? And, he offered it to God. This pleased Cain but it didn’t please the Lord. Reason being, the Hebrew writer clearly stated that it is impossible to please God without faith (Heb. 11:6). The faith we are to have comes from the word of God (Rom. 10:17). All of this simply means, the Father tells us what is pleasing to Him, so we don’t have to guess.

What is the church of Christ?

It would be silly to answer the original question if someone doesn’t even know what the church of Christ is. Just like the previous point where people are guilty of assuming what God wants, people are guilty of thinking they know what the church of Christ is, when they don’t .We are not talking about a denominational church. Are there denominational churches of Christ? Yes. But that’s not what we are dealing with. From a Biblical standpoint, what is the church of Christ? To begin with, it isn’t to be a man-made religious organization. Jesus promised to build His spiritual body, the church, which He did (Matt. 16:18; Acts 20:28; Eph. 1:22-23). Those who obey the gospel are the Lord’s special people that have been called out of darkness (I Pet. 2:9; Col. 1:13). So what we are talking about is a people that belong to Christ which He rules over since He is the head of the church having all authority (Col. 1:18; Matt. 28:18).

Who is a member of the church of Christ? 

Just like the previous point, again, man thinks he can control who becomes a member or not. The truth is, man has no say in the matter. No one, not a group of people can vote in, or add anyone to the church of Christ. Why? The church does not belong to the church, it belongs to Christ, it is His. I realize this is foreign to many people. Since the thousands of man-made religious organizations establish their own doctrines, it therefore puts them in control of who they will accept into the church. What everyone needs to know, is that Jesus adds all those who obey the gospel to His church (Acts 2:41-47). Obviously, since Christ promised and built it, it only makes sense that He decides who He will add to it. And those are the saved!

If not a member of the church of Christ, what other choices are there?

I can’t imagine anyone who wants to be saved, and be added to the church that is Christ’s, asking the question: Do I have to be a member of the church of Christ? Every saint in the first century was a member of Christ’s church (Rom. 16:16). Now we see the answer is crystal clear. If someone wants to please the Lord, be part of the spiritual family, Christ’s church, then YES, one must be a member of the church of Christ. No, not some religious sect that uses the Biblical name, but those who became Christians, having the Savior add then automatically to His spiritual family – the church of Christ.

Chuck

The first article is a perfect example of Christians conforming to the way the world perceives the church to be (Rom. 12:1-2). If you were to ask the average person on the street what a church should be, they would state that the church should be provide for the physical, emotional and material needs of the community. Many people believe that, in sum, this is what it means to provide for people “spiritually”.

This is why some churches provide daycare services, language-classes, blood drives and facilities for groups like Weight Watcher and the Boy Scouts. The list goes on and on. It is no longer surprising when churches of our Lord do the same things under the disguise of “good works.”

This is not a slam against anyone who wants to do good works. Opening daycares, organizing get-togethers for fun and games and volunteering in the community are all good and need to be done. The question is, why do those things only if people know you are a member of a certain church?

Jesus dealt with this kind of behavior in Matthew 23. I am not suggesting people are guilty of being just like the Pharisees Jesus was rebuking. I am suggesting that we can be guilty of doing the things those religious people were doing that the Lord had to rebuke. In verse 5, Christ said of those individuals, “But all their works they do to be seen by men.”  Drawing attention to self is not the goal.

What kind of message would I be sending to people in the community if I wore a T-shirt saying, “I belong to Debbie” (my wife)? Do I have to tell people that? Can I not act accordingly so that people know I belong to someone else? Religious groups are simply conforming to what they know people want. This is turn will draw people in and gain the large numbers.

Jesus’ earthly life had a purpose. He did not change that purpose to satisfy those who wanted other things from Him (John 6:26-27).

Chuck

There is an ongoing movement in churches of Christ to engage in all kinds of unlawful activities by putting it under the umbrella of “good works.” This is nothing new, nor is it unique. Most religious sects are also expanding their definition of “good works”. The influence is so strong that Christians look around and start to think, “Since everyone is doing it, it must be okay.”

This manner of thinking is shown in Israel’s desire to be led by a king rather than by God directly (I Sam. 8:5-6). Desiring to follow what is popular on the earth often results in forsaking the creator. What is wrong with expanding the mission of the church though? The church was founded by Christ (Matt. 16:18) for a specific purpose – to serve as the pillar and ground for God’s truth (1 Tim. 3:15). If we expand the mission of the church, we disregard Christ’s purpose for it.

Many local congregations follow the Biblical pattern of only governing themselves and having Christ as their head (Col. 1:18, Eph. 1:22-23). Still, a local church can be guilty of over-stepping its bounds by engaging in activities beyond what God has sanctioned. For example, the apostle Paul told Timothy to preach that Christians should take care of their own family members rather than burdening the church with that work (I Tim. 5:16). Even though helping needy people is a good work, there are still Biblical limitations on what the church should do. Having established that there are Biblical limitations on what a church should do, let us examine some other ways churches can go beyond their Christ-sanctioned purpose:

Raising our children

Some churches want to have a hand in child rearing, so they provide camps, parties, “trunk or treat” events, gyms and playgrounds.  However, parents are responsible for raising their children, not the church (Eph. 6:3; Titus 2:4). These activities have no direct spiritual application, so why should churches engage in them?

Providing meals

The brethren at Corinth were rebuked for mixing what they could do on an individual level with what the church can do collectively by trying to make feasts a spiritual event (I Cor. 11:22). They were told that they should eat at home as feasting is not a church work!  Until people can see that there is a difference between what the church can do collectively and was can be done individually, we will continue to see more and more local churches taking on unnecessary responsibility at the expense of their Christ-given purpose.

Loving our spouses

Husbands do not love their wives as a “church work”. But that is what happens when a church organizes a date night for couples and supplies babysitters. Husbands can and do handle these things without the oversight of any church!

It is tempting to look at these examples and ask what is the harm? Instead, God’s children should ask if God has authorized these activities. The purpose of the church is specific and spiritual, so it makes logical sense that its authorized activities will also be specific and spiritually grounded. Many people would refuse to go to a church that is doing something obviously sinful. Let us not ignore God’s purposes for the church though. The church is Christ’s (Acts 20:28), and no one has the right to presume to think for the Lord.

Chuck

Have you ever had someone tell you that the church they attend is such a loving church, as if to imply they are a faithful group? Oh, I don’t want to suggest that they are not loving. The problem is, a loving church is often viewed as faithful when they are not. Let me explain.

In Revelation chapter 3, we read where our Lord wrote a letter to the church at Ephesus because they lost their first love (vr. 4). Because of such they were commanded to repent (vr. 5). However, let’s take a close look at what they were commended for:

“I know your works, your labor, your patience, and that you cannot bear those who are evil. And you have tested those who say they are apostles and are not, and have found them liars; and you have persevered and have patience, and have labored for My name’s sake and have not become weary.” (vr. 2-3).

Many of the “loving” churches that I am told about don’t respect Biblical authority and don’t test anyone with specific teaching. They keep it general so as to not offend anyone. They have become the religious stand for “political correctness.” This is done so as to not upset anyone and make them feel uncomfortable. You do that by living under the umbrella of “love.”

This article is not to belittle the importance of love. Let’s face it that it was a specific problem at Ephesus which was specifically addressed. To not heed that warning would cost them their salvation. The point of this article is to see that the Lord was not telling those brethren that “all you need is love.” No, they needed to love and they also needed to continue to do the other things they were commended for.

The reason this article was written to help us see the danger of going to extremes. A church without love is in sin. A church without standing and respecting Biblical authority is in sin. The church of Christ is to be the pillar and ground of truth (I Tim. 3:15). Why? Because it’s Christ’s!

Chuck

Jesus, during His sermon on the mount (Matt. 5-7), preached many great lessons. One of which is found in chapter 5:38-42. This is where the Lord encourages His followers to resist the urge to be vindictive, to turn the other cheek, and go the extra mile. What we will do with this article is to examine the benefits of doing what the Lord is admonishing us to do.

It is what the Lord wants

Even though there are many good reasons to go the extra mile with someone, it really wouldn’t matter if we knew what they were. The truth is, if the Lord tells us to do it and we do, the greatest benefit is knowing it is what our Savior wants. For those who say they love Jesus, it ought to mean they want to keep His commandments (Jn. 14:15). It’s okay to think of, why does He want us to do it? But just the fact He tells us too is more than sufficient.

It is what the Lord did with us

Think about the time before we became a Christian, we were without strength, having no hope, walking in sin (Rom. 5:6-11). It was as though we were crucifying Christ anew not caring for Him at all (Heb. 6:6). Yet, Jesus didn’t give up on us. By His longsuffering and undying love, we who have obeyed the Gospel are so very grateful that Jesus didn’t turn His back on us. As we can see, our Lord has not asked us to do anything that He hasn’t already done. Christ has provided the perfect example for us to follow (I Pet. 2:21).

It is to let our light shine

Whenever saints let their light shine, the goal is to have them glorify God (Matt. 5:16). This good work might not impress most people, but the hope is that by going the extra mile people can witness your godliness and change themselves. Jesus made the point that if you just love those who love you, what is so great about that, even the tax collectors do the same (Matt. 5:46). As children of God, we are to be different and not conform to the world (Rom. 12:1-2).

It is to help Christians get stronger

There is nothing in the Lord’s admonition that insinuates that it is an easy task. After all, there wasn’t a clause that stated that you go the second mile when it is appreciated. James reminds us that we ought to count it all joy when we face all kinds of temptations because they help us become stronger when we overcome them (Jas. 1:2-4). It would be correct to say that Jesus tells us to do these things because He wants us to make it to heaven. The commands of our Lord, always and I mean always, have out best interest in heart.

It helps us accept our abilities

For Jesus to tell his people to do something that they couldn’t do, would make the Lord unjust. Christians are to do only what they are capable of doing and we are capable of going the second mile. That’s was the point of Christ’s lesson about the man who buried his talent (Matt. 25:24-26). We are not to bury our talent. To not do what we are commanded is to second guess our Savior. If we would see what our God sees in us, perhaps we would do much more for the Lord.

It will show just how much we care for others

Christ stated there are two laws that every other command hinges on and that is to love the Lord God and to love our fellow man (Matt. 22:34-40). There is no question that your love for others are clearly demonstrated when you go the second mile. Having learned all the benefits of doing what we are told, remember the Lord said to and that is more than enough.

Daniel